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Postuar nga lorie datë 23 Prill 2011 - 02:56:

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What I have noticed is that the people who turn themselves to the religion are mainly people who somehow fell out of the social system(not always the professional one though). These religious communities have mainly a social role for these people; they feel accepted and identify themselves with a group...humans are social animals and have a need to belong somewhere. I think, Lorie, that extremes are dangerous; balancing things in life is the key to happiness. Religion should take a tiny part of somebody's life; life so short and taking the risk of consuming most of the time in matters people even doubt their existence would be such a shame.

I would never respect a guy in a relationship who wouldn't be able to wear the pants=being a leader when needed BUT a good leader knows when to take a step aside! My better half and I are two alpha personalities and we have learnt that if we wanted to be together we'd have, when needed, to take a step back and let the other lead when/if needed. There's no place for being submissive bc neither of us would accept it; we both know that in some areas I'm better than he is and in others he's better than I am, so in those areas the priviledged one will be in charge. Aside from that, a good relationship is based on co-operation!



Regarding the first few points, I disagree. I find learning about it to be quite enriching.

I completely agree on the second one. Like i said, it sounds so unpleasant but if it was described in terms of 'I let him lead me whenever it's needed' it would be the same thing. I have actually witnessed women who complain out of misery that their husbands or boyfriends don't take charge in anything.


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