Regjistruar: 16/02/2003
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In Albania each female`s life was seen primarily in terms of her reproductive role. People usually connect the female life cycle with the family life cycle.
On the other side , in America (unlike men), most females are more likely to view their career as insurance against not getting married, or have had a bad marriage, and difficult economic circumstances.
For example, single mothers and married woman tend to work only in the economic interest of the family. Most females do not report dreams in which their careers stand out, and this is awful!
In general females are more likely than males to disclose personal information to a friend( only by holding hands they are displaying other signs of affection). Females have strong emotions, and they take responsibility, and show initiative as well.

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Regjistruar: 06/12/2004
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Oh the good old days. so r u working as a hostess or as a bassgirl? let me know when u become a waitress.

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I became an RN. Very far from waitress. Helping people in need is my first priority ( from now and on!). I work 40 hrs a week, and I`m very happy with my job ( because I love it.) I got payed very well, you must know that.
Anyway, it was a pleasure to chat with you. If you ever may need a job ( as a waiter), I wont mind if you ask me. You can work for me ( for my uncle), don`t be surprised! As my uncle Toni told me , "You may become rich one day!")
Have a healthy and happy afternoon.

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Regjistruar: 06/12/2004
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Boring defense mechanism. Sarcasm is outdated my dear. I payed for my college working as a bassboy, waiter or pizzaman so i dont have a problem with any of that.
Also I was reading your little unwinding that you have posted here and I felt sad. I have two sisters and I dont know if they ever felt the way that you did but I sincerely believe that your parents wanted the best for you thats why they did what they did. Hope you find peace my dear... or smth similar to that.

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The first time that I have been way from home, I felt the freedom moving forward in my veins. I kept smiling to everyone, I felt confident with myself. I felt free. Free from what? From whom I was running away?!

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I was running away from the ignorance! The principal developmental task confronting young adults in the stage of intimacy versus isolation is to reach out and make connections with other people.
"To love and to work" as said by Freud ( explaining that by love he meant the generosity of intimacy as well as genital pleasure).
A general work reproductiveness should not preoccupy the individual to the extent that there will be a loss in one`s night or capacity to be a sexual and a loving being. And isolation is the inability to take chances with one`s identity by sharing true intimacy...

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"...what the ***k is going on there? Are you crazy bro? you have other things to take care of, you shouldn`t get married! you are too ***king young!"

beep, beep....

( after 24 hours and 15 minutes...)

"You are right sis, I was drunk when I spoke to you last time. All I can say is that I`m in love with our neighboor`s daughter. She is the only girl in the city who has never had a boyfriend, and I want to be her first lover!"

beep, beep...

Edi is so f***ing stupid! he thinks same as an 80 years old-ish man (think)! I can`t believe he is my brother, I should better say, he is my "bother"!

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Citim:

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Po citoj ato që tha Ana1
"...what the ***k is going on there? Are you crazy bro? you have other things to take care of, you shouldn`t get married! you are too ***king young!"

beep, beep....

( after 24 hours and 15 minutes...)

"You are right sis, I was drunk when I spoke to you last time. All I can say is that I`m in love with our neighboor`s daughter. She is the only girl in the city who has never had a boyfriend, and I want to be her first lover!"

beep, beep...

Edi is so f***ing stupid! he thinks same as an 80 years old-ish man (think)! I can`t believe he is my brother, I should better say, he is my "bother"!

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Regjistruar: 12/02/2007
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That's all you had to say Ana?

I thought I found smthg interesting to read here finally (of course after Inge's messages )..

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... (she) was feeling kinda seasick
but the crowd called out for more ...

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