Regjistruar: 04/01/2004
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what you guys talkin about I don't get it??????

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Regjistruar: 13/07/2004
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hmmmmm i came in usa when i was 16. and to be honest with u guys at that time i thought that too. i thought that they were too strict and i hated it. i wanted freedom!!! but now that i grew up, i understand them better, i realize that they were right! well,this is my opinion. i may be wrong!!!!

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hahahahaaha this is the most stupid thing I have ever read.
Who are you, Delphos Oracule or what? Do you think that just reading a book you can know a culture?! this sucks...

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hahahahaha dark you are funny man. o my god lol

hey sonila i think albanians are not weird. why are they weird? i am not having any problem with my freedom, but from the other hand i got this privilege because i won the trust of my parents. it is your choice it is your decision to decide what you are going to do with yourself and your life, but as far as i know my parents being that strict with me and talking with me for everything, being friends to me, making me distinguish between good and bad things that might happend in life have really helped me and grown me as a person. you got to have the conversation between you and your parents, and i am pretty sure they will understand. and by the way that book that you read talkes about albanian culture and it is not talking about nowdays but for many many years ago, go to an usa library and give a try and read american culture, you will find almost the same things that u just said for albanian women. e.g. a woman almost 40 or50 years ago in usa could not get married if she was a teacher. so what does this mean did she have her freedom? i guess not so you will find almost the same things in everyother culture, the differenc in usa is the diversity. diveristy is life, and in albanian we don't have diversity or we might but not as much as here. you said that amerikan people do not like albanian but u yourself r proud of being one. which is good. i am glad to hear that, but i am an albanian and i feel loved from others and i don't think that amerikan don't like albanians because they are weird, there must be something else. have u ever asked yourself y they don't like albanians? ..... so we are albanians and we have to present our self for whom we are, our parents are great, are people who care for every singel thing that will happen to us. they are strict and i think most of the times they should be, i think i will be the same with my kids if i want the best for them. they can go party have fun, enjoy their life but not do whatever they want to do. bye

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Well described Arsona. This is just what i wanted everybody to understand.

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arsoa thats good u won the trust from the parents

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Regjistruar: 13/09/2004
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Po citoj ato që tha sonila_21
Listen, I know very much about Albanians because I read a book written by a Serbian professor who studied their culture.

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No need for further comments , it's enough to make me laugh , especially that the book was written from a Serbian professor lol

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Yes Albanian parents are very strict. A father gets to decide who his daughter will marry and she has no choice. Also women are the property of their fathers until they get married then they're the property of their husband. Women can't own anything. Also men are allowed to beat their women as hard as they want whenever they feel like it for no reason.

Also, when a woman gets married, on her wedding day she presents to her husband a box, which contains a gun, which he has to use to kill her if her hymen isn't intact.

Also, women can swear to become virgins, and then they become men, and then they dress like men, and if anyone sees a woman dressed like a man he thinks that that woman is actually a man, and has to refer to her as "he" and treat her as men.

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Excuse me miss ? Why do u call yourself albanian , if you know nothing about them ?!
Probably the book you were reading was talking about 19-th century , because now days , those things you're saying are a bedtime story for the retarted kids !

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Also they got something called "gjakmarje" which instructs them to kill each other for the littlest things. That's one reason Serbs had to send the army into Kosovo, to protect non-Albanians from their backwards ways.

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Kete po ta shkruaj shqip se ma do mendja qe si shqiptare qe e propogandon vehten , duhet te dish shqip...SHqiptare je ti apo Serbe ?
Do i atribosh luften e Kosoves dhe krimet qe kane bere serbet atje , the things they call "gjakmarrje" ?
Nese je Serbe , e kuptoj ku do dalesh dhe ste ve faj qe shkruan keshtu , nese je shqiptare , te kesh turp qe flet me kaq arrogance dhe indiferentizem ndaj gjakut te derdhur prej shqiptarve te kosoves per te mbrojtur shtepite e veta nga Shkjau !

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If anyone wants to know anything more about Albanians just ask me. Don't ask any Albanian because they are biased, ask me because I read a book written by a neutral impartial professor..

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Impartial professor e? lol
And now you've read the book , you're ready to predict albanian culture e?
Let me tell u something girl ...don't try to talk , predict and judge , something you know nothing about it !
Try to learn and think before u speak because is gonna save u the word "dumb" adressed to u !

p.s Hirushja , thumbs up about your posts girl ! Looks like you are ( like they say it in albanian ) ..me mend ne koke dhe kembe ne toke
Wish u luck girl !

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I wanna say something to that girl for the albanian parents.

We have the best parents in the world. What make's them to be very strict is that they care about you and try to protect you. Sometimes we like to discover new thinks wich some are good and some are bad. I would not like to explore this bed thinks! I mean if take care of you is very strict think than my darly girl you are wrong! Life it is not an Biological Experiment.

I love my parents and I will do everything to so Satisfy them.
Take care of Yourself good girl.

A big kees for my parents in Albania!

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I wanna say something to that girl for the albanian parents.

We have the best parents in the world. What make's them to be very strict is that they care about you and try to protect you. Sometimes we like to discover new thinks wich some are good and some are bad. I would not like to explore this bed thinks! I mean if take care of you is very strict think than my darly girl you are wrong! Life it is not an Biological Experiment.

I love my parents and I will do everything to so Satisfy them.
Take care of Yourself good girl.

A big kees for my parents in Albania!

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